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[ryanator]

This is to vent on how there are some people who at first you get a good vibe (or none at all), then it seems like everytime you see them, they just glance at you and seem like "oh..that person" and snub you or something.  And you didn't do anything.  In my case it's a whole group of 3 people my age or a few years younger (didn't know them before).  I just hate that cold feeling from them.  And they seem like generally nice easy going people, but it's like they think they're better than you or something or have some thing going on within their circle.

[C Pav]

People will be people but I kind of know what you mean. I feel sometimes I get glances from even people I don't even know like at the gym or elsewhere and those glances are the "Thanks for being a jerk" type. I know I am not the greatest social person and don't say Hi to everyone but if I don't know you then go about your business. If I did something to offend you then just let me know. I do things or give mean looks but it's not intentional or a long lasting feeling. Take the gym for example. I am not there to hang out. I am there to get a workout. Talk to me in a friendly way and I will talk to you the same but be a jerk, give me a look like "WTF" or steal my machine when I am not done with it then I may give an upset look. In the end though, people will be people. Some people it's hard to become friends with just because of how they are. I can think back to friends I had that are no longer friends because of how they are or because they changed.

[ryanator]

I know, right now I'm thinking of work (out of the 300+ people her).

[jmanz]

I know people like that also, mainly at the former place of employment. Don't even think about them, or even pay attention to them at work. Just do your job and focus on the things that matter. There are always going to be people like that and you can't do anything about it. Handle your business and you'll be better off for it, they will get theirs someday.